The past few weeks, as my life has slowed down (somewhat!) since I finished my dissertation, I have been finding myself doing more. By doing more, I mean, doing more “life” with my family (without feeling the pressure of writing yet another paper!), watching a movie until the very end, planning meals for the week, being still… What I am realizing in these moments, is that despite having “relatively” slower schedule, I am not checking my phone as frequently for updates.
If you know me, you know that I am VERY connected to social media professionally and personally and I have found that this has been an outlet for me to stay connected despite my busy schedule. Yet, as I think about what makes me feel the most connected to others, it is not staying current with what is happening in the world, it is finding more moments where I am connecting with what and who is in my life.
I have been challenged to think about how I can do more and be more in my personal life so that I can be the best for those that I serve. A few things that I am challenging myself on (daily/weekly) are below:
-eat more dinners with my family during the week
-read at least one chapter in a book every week
-change up my running routine to explore new workouts like rowing and spin!
-weekly organize an area of my house to keep, pass on or throw away items that I no longer need
-dream
-write
-be still
Life isn’t perfect, but I am willing to make changes in my life to live out what I believe to be true.
If you had to make a change, what would your change be? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Congratulations on completing your dissertation and “doing more.” Best of luck on your final defense if you have not already defended.
Thank you! I have already defended and I am eagerly awaiting graduation this spring!
–Kristen
Congrats on your PHD.
Remember the quality of the connections we have in life are much more important than the quantity of connections we make. Quality time with a few great connections is a rewarding experience.
Hi Duane,
Thank you for your reply! I couldn’t agree with you more; quality over quantity.
All the best,
Kristen